We thought about that and we finally had an epiphany. We decided to observe people at the party and social dynamics between them. We started to observe human interaction, how women show their interest, who are they interested in and what they find attractive.
We noticed one important thing. One of the girls clearly found our friend really attractive. She was smiling all the time, chatting him up, looking for a pretext for a conversation, leaving with him for a cigarette. We don't know what were they talking about on a balcony, but after another drink we decided to get some fresh air we left with them. We noticed one very interesting thing.
We realised that in order to have a successful social life, you don't need to use tricks, old pick up lines, made up stories (although this may be helpful from time to time). It all comes naturally if you have an interesting life. If you visit various places, if you do something interesting. Our friend has visited half of our planet and therefore has a lot of stories to tell. No lies, no made up stories, just life which makes you better than others.
We're not saying 'do not use any stories that will build you a social ID' or 'an art of seduction won't give you anything'. Simply work on your lifestyle so that your life itself was a testimony of how attractive you are for a woman. If you work at the gas station and the only thing you do in your free time is play online games, this is how attractive you'll be for a woman.
If you run your own company, you have a passion (even chess) and therefore something interesting is happening in your life, you are immediately becoming more attractive.
Of course we don't mean that if your job doesn't pay well, you'll never be attractive for a woman. It's not the point. It's more about a lifestyle. If your life, your world is attractive, then by definition you are also attractive. It's a woman who wants to enter your world, not a man entering hers.
